So I have MS, which is progressive. I was ok when we met but slowly got worse. For a while she could adapt to the changes with me, but it became too much. Basically I slowly lost control of everything below my waist. 2019 she mentally checked out. I don’t ask for much,I can do a lot independently, and I hired aides to help with big things. But even that was too much. Last year the divorce finalized. We still talk because the kids, and we’re still friendly, just no love. During one conversation she said “your disease took my husband from me.” That we can no longer do things we did in the beginning. Instead of finding new things, she chose to walk away. No abuse, cheating, I wasn’t neglectful (as much as I could). It was the MS. And that hit hard. Basically telling me I can’t provide and support someone. There’s no point to remarrying or even dating again. I apparently don’t have value as a man because of my disability. If I can’t provide and do things regular guys can, what’s the point. Just ranting and venting to the ether.