Hey whats up guys. Felt like this is the perfect place to share our story. My wife is involved in all this as well, and here is a super brief summary of how things started/have went. All of us, including my daughters, were over 18 when any sexual activity took place. Basically my wife and I have three daughters and I have gotten to have sexual experiences with all of them. To give a bit of backstory on us, I did not have incest experiences with my family but my wife did with her dad. I have always been open minded sexually and open to new things. Before we were married she opened up to me about her experiences with her Dad. She had a perspective that it was very positive for her and gave her the experience she felt she deserved to have. I appreciated her opening up to me and didn’t judge her for it, and continued learning about her experiences. She eventually asked me if I was willing to do this with our future daughters, and I told her I was open to it but wanted her input when the time came because tbh I was pretty nervous about it.

Obviously sparing all sorts of details and nuance about our family to fit this all in a post, but basically we maintained a semi nude environment at home. Nudity wasn’t a requirement but not something we frowned upon either and actually there were many times where our daughters became curious or had questions and were able to explore our bodies in a healthy way.

My wife was the one who spoke to our daughters more about sex, each one as they became old enough. Slowly and at their own pace they began to learn different things and explore their own sexuality. They were very comfortable with it and it was very laid back and educational focused. My wife was really great with them and would talk to them privately to see what questions they had or things they were curious about, as sometimes it was embarassing for them to ask me. But we believe that sex, especially for a woman, is a right of passage and that as the father and head of the house it was my responsibility to be the one to experience that with them. When my daughters were given the open to lose it to some guy who has no experience and likely won’t be around for her, or me, someone who they trust and has the experience needed for them, they all made their own decision to lose it for me.

And so, when it was the right time, I was able to be the one to be their first for everything. It was an incredible and different experience for all three of them and my wife also was with us while it happened which was so special. After the initial time, sex with each of them continued and still does now. I can honestly say that while I know it is not the norm for society, I am happy I trusted my wife and decided to experience this with my girls. Sex is very intimate and has created a closeness with them that most fathers don’t get to have. And the fact that they care about my needs too and make sure I’m taken care of is a huge blessing to me.

This post I know is super brief and I’m trying to describe a very complex and intimate experience in just a small summary, but my hope is that it sheds light on maybe the right way to go about this for parents who are interested. It’s really just a matter of openly communicating, not forcing things but letting them slowly happen over time, and providing education so that they can navigate the complexity of a sexual relationship with other guys. I’ll be on for awhile and my wife may join me too so we would be happy to chat or answer questions as well!