I'm a disabled virgin with a somewhat quirky sense of humor. I tend to get very passionate when I meet someone I like. Even chatting over text can really affect me, because of how I type. I use a dictation software. What this means is that every time I type I feel like I'm actually having a conversation with you, like I would in real life, because I can hear myself speaking. Everything means that much more.

I've been attracted to kink since I was 18 and I finally decided to figure out what all the hoopla about Fifty Shades of Grey was about. I never read the book but I stumbled on a couple BDSM forums and I started reading about it. Power exchange really appeals to me, because I have to do it a lot in my real life. I need help doing things like bathing and dressing, so I have to rely on other people more than the average person, at least I think so. Kink and D/s play gives me a chance to take some of the power back because we can actually negotiate power exchange.

I'm looking for something long-term with a woman who is relatively experienced. I'm not saying you have to have a lot of experience, but just enough to be patient with me and teach me some things. Have you ever heard the term "project quarterback?" It's a term used by NFL scouts too describe a player who has enough skill to play at a high level, but needs to hone their craft a bit. That's me. I know I would be a good dominant. I know someday I will find my girl and I will make her happy and she will make me happy, but right now I'm still a naïve boy who needs to be held and taught and cared for.

To be clear, I am looking for a submissive woman, but also a woman who knows what she wants and who doesn't expect me to dominate her perfectly the first time we try.

If you couldn't tell already, I'm looking for something long-term. I'm a passionate person and I really like getting to know someone. I'm naïve and I'm a bit whimsical. I'm also sensitive and romantic. I'm open to exploring most kinks, as I've fantasized about pretty much everything under the sun. The only red lines I have are humiliation and degradation. I'm just not good at that. It's not in my nature.

Well, here's the end of this drunken ramble. I only ask that you be single, under 45, and be somewhere in North America. It would be great if you were in the United States.

Thank you for reading.

As long as this is up, I am open to replies. Even has been up for hours, or even days, you can still message me. I promise I will respond.

Sorry for any typos. My dictation software sucks and my voice gets tired at night.

Again, thank you for reading!