My philosophy in life is that it's too short to not enjoy yourself, meet people, and experience things. Call me hedonistic, I suppose. And therefore I am looking for a FWB that shares this sentiment with me! It doesn't have to be purely sexual. Honestly, sometimes I'm in the mood to just get a beer with someone, make some crude jokes, and talk about random shit, and sometimes I just want to chill next to the pool with a drink.

What this is: a friendship where we can mutually and discreetly have fun and explore sex and kinks. A partnership of booty calls. A zone of zero judgment. An understanding that if other obligations get in the way, we won't be upset for the other person prioritizing their actual lives first. Open and honest fun. Friends with benefits.

What this is not: polyamory. I'm not interested in a new romantic attachment. (Some emotional attachment from being friends, perhaps...I'm not going to have sex with someone if I don't think they're a cool person, you know?) I'm not interested in any kind of sugar situation. I'm not interested in broadcasting to the world what our situation is.

Sexually, I have a huge amount of interests, and am constantly coming up with new things that I'd like to try. BDSM wise I'm absolutely a switch - enjoy playing either side depending on the mood. I have some toys that I can bring to the table, and open to buying new things to experiment with. I enjoy everything oral and anal. Have some experience with rope. Likely to try almost anything at least once. Always willing to hone my oral skills.

About me: I'm 37, white, 6'1", dark hair. I'm intelligent, laid back, have a professional career, and am quick to laugh at myself for the latest dumb thing that I've done. Nerd at heart...love science, reading, video games, board games. Also love doing outdoorsy things. I'm an animal person (currently have 2 cats!). I'm a conversationalist...love talking about interesting and complex subjects (societal, cultural, and religious views on sexuality is a great example). I'm someone that will always do the moral thing (at least outside of the bedroom 😉). Feel obligated to put this out there: I'm not doing this behind my wife's back. She knows what I'm up to and approves. We're happy and I don't intend to change anything on that front.

About you: Open minded, willing to be frank and up front with me with your thoughts about things (it won't hurt my feelings). Willing to trade pics early on to make sure there is a mutual attraction. Don't care if you're attached considering that I am as well, but in that case I'd ask that you're arrangement is ethical as mine is.

Feel like I've maybe written too much at this point. So if anything about this piques your interest, I hope that you message me so that we can talk!