I'm looking for a relationship with a female leader who inspires respect. Ideally, this would be in the form of someone who's also gently dominant, but more important is that you are a good mentor and role model.
I need someone unafraid to provide structure and wants the best out of me. I am intelligent and capable but, without structure, I do very poorly in my work and personal life, and tend to drift. It also means I have problems with authority where it occurs in forms I don't respect (unearned positions of power, rules for rules' sake, weak leadership).
I have ADHD so I crave stimulation - to get dopamine going in my brain, and tend to mostly seek this through learning new things or exercise. But I could benefit highly from someone who understands how to motivate their submissive (and plays into my natural desire for dopaminergic rewards).
I'm not looking for a kink dispenser, but true and shining female leadership, within and outside the bedroom. I want to admire you not only for your looks, but for your power and ability to inspire.
I tend to hyperfocus on the things I find rewarding. So you would be working with a loyal and highly driven early 30s male.
I'm 31, fit, well hung, handsome, and live in Denver. Major plus if you understand or have experience with ADHD or want to see a mentee flourish.
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