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29 [M4F] #US/Cali #ONLINE - HUMILIATION AND DEGRADATION IS MY FORTE. Handsome Dom seeking long term SUBMISSIVEā€¦
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arcansa is a male age 29 looking for a female in US/Cali
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I am a 29 year old Dom from the US looking for a long term dynamic with the potential for something in person.

Whether you are new to the world of a BDSM or experienced, I love to get to know my sub and train you to my standard. To have you well versed with my needs and wants so that you can please me to the best of your ability. Hopefully we will have that connection.

What to expect as me as your Dom

I have a range... I can be a soft, loving, caring Dom or a strict sadistic Dom when needed. I feel the contrast of the two makes a fun dynamic. Despite the fact that power plays a big role in this kind of lifestyle, there will always be a lot of respect, nurturing, and communication. My subā€™s needs and well-being are important to me.

My characteristics of a Dom are:

Playful Bossy Kind Sadistic Caring Strict

I will take on the responsibility of guiding, disciplining, and protecting you as my Sub. My control will be your release. I like to help and support my sub. I am a man of my word and will be reliable, and accountable.

I am disciplined and will instil discipline in my subs life. I like to set rules, habits and tasks to be completed to the best of your ability. This is to aid my sub to become the best version of herselfā€¦and of course, to please me. I know what I like and I like things to be done my way. Thereā€™s nothing I love more than praising and rewarding my sub, I have high standards and just can be hard to please. Are you up for the challenge of being a ā€œGood Girlā€ for me Or will you end up being punished? spank

Serious subs continue reading...

I do have guidelines that I like to stick to when living such a lifestyle...

Trust: In order for a relationship to flourish, especially in this lifestyle, trust is one of the most important factors. Offering your submission to someone requires an extraordinary amount of trust, not to mention bravery and confidence, too. It is important to me for you to openly talk about past experiences, triggers, or mental health illnesses (if any). Be open and honest with me.

Privacy. This coincides with trust. I cannot not stress this enough. Itā€™s so important to respect each otherā€™s privacy within the world of BDSM. This allows us to relax and fully immerse ourselves into our dynamic. Whatever is said and sent to each is for our eyes and ears only.

Kindness: one of the most important aspects of a dynamic, especially involving BDSM is kindness and lots of love and caring. Not to mention that after sadistic play: AFTERCARE. I like to make sure my partner knows theyā€™re cared for and respected. I am unfailingly kind and always willing to help my sub.

Kinky Me

I am a very kinky, down to earth and open minded Dom. I enjoy many kinks. My forte is Humiliation/degradation : be it verbal, physical, or sexual. I am not soft in the bedroom . I like it rough and sadistic. You will be mine to use.

A little insight to what Iā€™m into: - Assplay/Anal/anal training - Impact Play - Orgasm control/denial - Humiliation/Degradation - Watersports/hard sports - TPE - CNC Plus a whole lot moreā€¦

I donā€™t particular have a type of Sub that Iā€™m looking for except i love obedience. What Dom doesnā€™t. I dislike rudeness, manners go a long way with me. Physically, You can be size 0 or size 20, big boobed or no boobed, tall or shortā€¦If we click and I find you attractive itā€™s all good :)

You have read this far I am pleased with your dedication and attentiveness. If the above heightens your submissive side, send me a DM or Chat with the following:

  • Age
  • Location
  • Experience level
  • Your top 3 physical characteristics
  • Your top 3 non physical characteristics
  • Something that is your favourite

It is unlikely that I will reply if you do not do that.

Iā€™ll look forward to hearing from you...

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