Hello, I’m a 30 year old virgin trying to find the right person to lose my virginity with. I’ve posted here before but have had no luck finding people.

About me: I’m 5’8” weigh around 210lb, South Asian ("brown") with brown eyes, a good beard, black hair. I am overweight but I have been working on it. If that’s not your cup of tea, all good. I had a very traditional upbringing and strict parents in India and was made to think that I should just focus on studies and not relationships. In college, somehow, I was able to make a girlfriend but even holding hands was a big thing for her. So, when we broke up, it took me a long time to get over her. I decided to get more into work. That's why I’ve struggled most my life with major anxiety when it comes to women and it’s definitely contributed to my inability to find partner but I’ve made great progress over the past year and would describe myself as a different person. Apart from my job and gym workout, I love anime/manga, playing games, experimenting with tech and food (not together, lol). Recently got PS4 Pro PSVR and in the process of setting it up. Would love to see you play with those wands. 😏

What I’m looking for: I’d love to meet a nice woman, preferably also a virgin but you don’t have to be. I have some preferences with regards to ethnicity (Asian/Caucasian/European/South Asian/Middle Eastern) and body type (curves are good but please don't be morbidly obese) but as long as you present yourself well, I'm good with it. I would also love to try as many things as possible, different positions, kinks, whatever, since I’ve had no opportunities to explore these things. You would be my first kiss too and it would also be awesome if this could turn into a recurring friends with benefits type deal. I’d love someone I’m comfortable with to experiment with on an ongoing basis and learn better how to perform.

Let’s exchange photos after we talk a bit. I would also prefer for us to meet up for a date or somewhere public at least once before we do anything. This is just better for both our safeties.

Hosting: I can travel to you, that's not an issue. I can host in East Van (housemates are non-interfering). We have a shy cat so don't have to worry about it unless you have allergies.