Right now, I am feeling particularly in need of an easy, casual connection, with a woman who wants to flex some sub tendencies with someone who feels trustworthy. I live in the west end of Toronto, but cannot host tonight. If you can, reach out, and I'll send some pictures, and we can go from there

First off, a physical description:

• 35 years old
• I am slim to medium in build, and for some reason I maintain some definition, despite not really excersizing or eating all that well. Who knows how long that'll last, so get it while it's still good!
• I'm a bookish brunette, with big glasses, a short beard, and at least for the time being, my curly hair is long and usually in a bun.
• A towering 5'8" tall
• A staggering 6" long, uncut and fairly thick.
• Generally handsome, modest librarian vibes. Just don't go looking for me at a TPL branch, you won't find me there unless it's a day off from work.

What I'm into:

• Open minded and adaptable when it comes to sex, though I generally want to be the top to your bottom, in whatever dynamic we produce.
• Impact play? Bondage? Role play? Absolutely.
• I can be mean, I can be gentle, or I can do both and really mess with you: I probably would want your submission, but the path to that goal can be varied, and a lot of fun.
• I'm sure I have limits, but I'm more concerned about knowing about (and respecting) yours.
• Do you have more esoteric kinky interests? I doubt you could surprise me, and I'm probably game.
• Aftercare: it's really important to me that neither of us feel like terrible people it's all said and done.
• Polya/Non-monogamy: I am not single, so I am not looking for someone seeking to create a monogamous, exclusive relationship.
  

The people I like best:

• Communicate clearly
• Are kinky, or interested in learning more about their relationship with kink
• I don't have strong preferences when it comes body types or background: come as you are.

I think I have a certain moderate appeal: finding men who you can trust online can be a real drag. I pride myself in fostering good connections, and putting my partners at ease.