Hi there!

I'm a 34-year-old guy from Belgium who's been less gifted in the "experience" department of intimate relationships. So far I've basically only fooled around (and not even gone all the way fully) with one woman before, but as lovely as she was — and she makes for a pretty cool friend — I didn't quite feel the click on a more intimate level.

I am now starting to wonder if that was because of the lack of click, or if the lack of click was because I/my brain is not actually wired for those types of things. Basically I'm looking to just find people to experience things with (first online, then who knows?) to figure out myself and my needs.

Here's a few things about me:

• Slightly above average height
• Leaning more towards dad bod than athlete
• I speak Dutch, French, and English. I know some (very) basic German and Spanish, but don't expect to hold a full conversation with me in them
• Degree in IT
• Employed in education
• I love good TV shows, movies, and anime (don't worry, not the type with body pillows and figurines of questionable morals)
• I'm not looking for anything in specific, but will definitely not dismiss anything either as long as there is a connection
• A weird mix between open when asked about personal stuff, but being bad at actually initiating those types of conversations
• I love listening to music (just making sure I check off all the cliché's here)

As taboo it feels for me to voice this out loud, there's a few things that have been intriguing me that I have been meaning to find out/experience. These are in no particular order:

• Having a more experienced person take charge of my (late) baby steps into sexuality, leading me to some insights about myself, either with a woman just guiding me, or a couple that is willing to teach me the ropes so to say
• Being tied up and just played with by someone that knows their way around
• Actually learning how to have a good orgasm, the last few years its felt more like a 'mechanical need' rather than something to enjoy
• From the limited experience I have had, I absolutely enjoyed giving head to a woman. The thought of being the reason a partner is getting off got me more excited than anything else

Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I will do my utmost best to reply to any message (if there even are any) as quickly as possible. Have a good day o/