Just like salsa, waltz, tango or any partner dancing any two people can dance together. They may have awkward moments, step on each others toes and not be in sync with one another, but they can make due until the next song to find another partner that is more enjoyable to dance with. I am sure we have all experienced something like this in our sex lives.

Then there are pairs that pick up on each other’s subtle body language, in perfect sync as they dance in a flow state of relaxed responsiveness. Speeding things up, slowing them down while having fun getting sweaty dancing song after song looking incredibly sexy while twirling around in perfect synchronization and being the envy of the dance floor. This is the kind of “dance partner” I am seeking for the “Mattress Mambo”.

Just like the dance analogy, I am not seeking just anyone to have mediocre sex with or looking for a relationship. Just friends that have a good mental and physical connection that vibe well enough together for hot and steamy sex that leads to you getting those legs shaking, toes curling, earth shattering orgasms.

About me: 31, a bit of a sapio, adrenaline junkie, adventurous, well traveled, very calm demeanor, well educated and have an insatiable curiosity. My curiosity has lead me into having a wealth of knowledge on all sorts of random topics and have become a very handy Jack of all trades. I have been told I have more life experiences, skills and knowledge than someone twice my age.

I have done many martial arts and did competitive kickboxing at the amateur level for several years, but now just stick to yoga, mountain biking, skiing, snowboarding and avoiding avalanches in the back country. I spend time mentoring folks in the corporate world and sharing the knowledge in my hobbies like taking a decent skier and building them up to do the more extreme terrain safely. Teaching people new skills and building them up is something I enjoy doing.

My stats: 5’8” white with that sun kissed golden skin, dirty blonde/brown hair with an athletic physique and fairly attractive. Clean cut appearance with all Eastern European and Viking heritage. Drug and disease free, but don’t mind the occasional 420. I have a nice place and can host. I live alone, but have a huge well trained dog that I raised as a puppy so saying hi and petting the dog is mandatory.

What I am into: I am a pleaser and get off by getting you off. I like picking up those subtle cues your body gives off and primal sex. I enjoy giving oral, nipple play and occasional light bondage (I do the tying). My personality naturally fits into that mentor/caregiver/daddy dom category. I really enjoy breeding meaning giving you creampies. Even while you are not on BC playing the pullout game or rolling the dice with a full load I like doing. I understand that is not everyone’s cup of tea and I am always happy to wear a condom.

What I am NOT into: Outside of spanking and nipple play I will not hit you, intentionally leave a mark, choking, breath play or cause pain. That is not the way I was raised and it just does not feel right doing that. Also a hard no to any body fluids that belong in a toilet.

What I look for in a FWB: Height weight proportional, disease free, takes care of their health both physically and mentally. Sane and somewhat have it together. Good communicator, generally an interesting person and 100% honesty when it comes to your wants, needs or fantasies in bed. Ideally between the age of 23-28, but I am open to those outside this age range as well.

Your next steps: If it sounds like we would vibe together send a detailed message opening up who your are, what you want including fantasies you have and let’s get to know each other. Bonus points if you are into snow sports or partner dancing.

Disclaimer: local to Colorado only or have set plans to travel here. I do not responde to low effort messages.