Hello!

I'm a 44 year old man that's been in the BDSM world for quite a while. The exploration of what that meant, in my young years, was a bit of a process so I can feel for those starting the process!

I'm happy to teach/train a new Sub, or get to know a Sub that's been in the lifestyle for a while. I have no interest in a superficial relationship. I'm looking for something with substance. I always hope to develop something deep; a bond.

Bonding is something that is very important to me in any relationship but especially important in a Dom/Sub relationship. Communication and trust is of the utmost importance as is loyalty, dedication, and a desire to make things there best!

What you can expect from me?

I'm a very inquisitive man. I love to ask questions and at times am too blunt about it, I admit that... I'm someone that is open to anything, and hope that our conversation is able to go in that direction... I'm typically able to spot a fake Sub, and would hope that you'd only be messaging me if you're actually truly interested in something deep and meaningful. I'm a caregiver as well as task master, which means that I love to give care (DDLG does interest me, but not necessary; Must be a Sub #1). I love to give tasks and discuss rules so that our expectations are clearly outlined up front.

What I expect from you?

I expect much of the things I've already mentioned... I want you to be open and honest and loyal. I want one Sub that has only me in her life as her dominant. I'm not interested in competing for attention from others. If you're a Sub that is Poly, I'm not the right man for you.

I'm interested in this being online, with the possibility/hope that it will inevitably turn into something IRL... at least allowing us to have the conversation.

I hope you're interested?

I look forward to talking to you!

As you chat/PM me, please tell me a few things about yourself... Realistically if you can't go through the process of typing out a few things about yourself, how good a submissive can I expect you'd be? But, since I know that might be difficult for you, if you're deeply submissive, to come up with...

Here are some ideas for when you chat/PM me:

Name.

Age.

Time zone. (I'm EST)

How long you've been in the lifestyle.

What led you into BDSM.

How do you know, or what encourages you to know that you're Submissive.

How much control do you want me to have over your life? (ex. Do you like micro managing tasks; me picking your panties daily... or are your more of a big picture girl)

Do you have any interest in DDLG? If so, tell me about your LG side.