We've been married for a few years now and as much as we love each other it feels like the spark isn't quite there like it used to be. We've discussed many times about trying new things, testing toys, trying to be a bit kinky in the bedroom but each of those things only makes it exciting in the bedroom for a few weeks before we fall back into our routine.

I've asked many times if you wanted to try a threesome or open up our marriage a little but you've always been against the idea. You can't bear the thought of sharing me and you don't really have any interest in all the effort that it would take to meet someone new and form a relationship.

We moved to Paris last year and have been loving the lifestyle, but we still don't have a lot of friends so when we realised that we were living not far from the Olympic village it was all very exciting for us and we liked the idea of being able to go to our local bar and maybe catching a glimpse of a famous sports person, or at the very least letting ourselves get caught up in the hype of the Olympic season.

It's a Friday night and we had planned to meet at the bar when I finished work but I got stuck with some extra jobs that I need to get wrapped up before the weekend so you find yourself at the bar alone. What I wasn't expecting was for some Olympic athletes to make their way to the bar early and perhaps strike up a conversation with you, making friends and being a little flirty, encouraging you to let your guard down a little bit. Maybe after a while you keep texting me to see how long I'll be but right at that moment you get invited back to the Olympic village for a few more drinks, it's a once in a lifetime opportunity and I've been encouraging you to be more open to things like this for the longest time.... do you take up the chance?