Ok so first off I did add some edits to the first post to clear up some confusion and hopefully answer all those questions. Secondly thank you all for the great advice and talking me into going back!

Ok, so when I first got to class the instructor did pull me aside and apologized for the ladies behavior. This class for me is an introductory class, so it's only a week long to see if I like it. Most of the ladies there are for the full class which is 10 weeks long. They're in their third week together. So they all basically know each other. The angry lady stayed on her side and I got enough courage to chat with the lady next to me. She's actually pretty awesome. We have a few things in common and she helped me out with my dad bowl a lot. So we got a long pretty well and decided we would talk more over dinner.

Why is it in every couple when one partner asks the other where to go for dinner no one can decide?

So yeah, we eventually settled on Olive Garden. When I was washing up at the sink she came over to give me her number. She was all cleaned up and ready to go at this point. No all the time she was helping me with my bowl she was not wearing a ring. Now she is! So this has me worried. I texted her and asked about it, and told her I wasn't comfortable taking out a married lady to dinner. I'm kind of wondering if that was a mistake cause she still hasn't gotten back to me. Like what should I do in this situation? It's it normal for married woman to just go to dinner with strangers?

Ok, now back to the angry lady. When I was on my way out she caught me in the hall and apologized for yesterday. I told her it was no big deal, and tried to move on from it. She walked out with me and seriously started to vent all these problems she been having lately on me. She recently had a loved one pass away, her boyfriend of 8 months left her last week because of her anger issues. She does go to counseling though for it. I kind of felt really bad for her, so I walked her to her car said my good bye, then she stopped me and gave me her number and invited me for coffee tomorrow to make up for what she did yesterday. So now I got a date with a married lady and an angry lady. I feel like I'm in serious trouble here.

What can I do to not get coffee smashed on me? How do I avoid the he possible husband finding out she's with a man for dinner? Like none of this feels comfortable with me at all, but at the same time I plan to finish my bowl damn it. If I blow them both off, I'll probably end up in a morgue, or worse yet the whole class sticking me in the kiln. Any advice would be helpful! This dating stuff is crazy!

UPDATE She is married and wants a friend that can come over for fun when her husband is awake on business. I told her I couldn't do that and she asked if I still wanted to go on our "dinner date" as she calls it, just as friends. I still said I just couldn't do it cause it won't be right.

As for the angry lady, I still might go have coffee with her. Maybe she just really needs a friend to help who through her tough times. I can't just walk away from someone who is obviously hurting. That's just not who I am. I am however wearing thick layers of clothes just in case