I 40F days away from 41, just broke up with him 45M. We had been dating for just over 6 months, some long distance, made trips to see each other all that. I love him as a person, we are staying friends because we get along so well, but there was ZERO passion.

I’m frustrated. I’m very shy and lack self confidence in what I bring to a relationship other than my looks. But I’m intimidating, I’m tall, long dark hair, not bad face or body. The men I’m attracted to won’t approach me, men who who do are usually creeps or fuckboys. Going back to OLD…sigh…OLD has been one of the biggest contributing factors to my certainty that humanity is doomed.

I just want someone that I get along with, who I feel passion for.