Just curious what the consensus is on this. I’m 31M and my GF is 30. We had sex after about a month of dating. I know of 3 guys she slept with in the 6 months before we started dating officially.

We’re very open about sex and things we’ve done in the past with other partners and are on the same page.

We’ve never talked about the exact number of past sexual partners we’ve had, she’s very sex positive and I know wasn’t afraid of a one night stand. Mine is 14 including her and I believe hers is probably at least 20.

Is this something that other people have had a successful relationship without discussing specifics? Part of me wants to know, but the other part enjoys the mystery of not knowing.

To be clear it could be 100 guys and I wouldn’t even consider breaking up with her. I have it too good and am truly in love with this girl. I’m just curious what everyone else’s opinion/stance on the situation would be.