So, my wife (47F) is a citizen of France. Generally, many of the women there smoke heavily (like her sisters and mother). They’ve all mostly switched to vaping (Which does nothing for me) or just quit. My wife enjoys a cigar occasionally (doesn’t inhale) and smoking weed (inhales deeply). She’s even smoked a cigarette VERY seldom (didn’t inhale). She also has an office in Manila where women smoking is very prevalent there. I’ve told her that she looks sexy while smoking. She goes to meetings to curb her drinking so, I know she has an addictive personality. How can I convince or trick her to start smoking without outright telling her? I would like to see the progression happen naturally. Any help? Thanks.