I've done things that I shouldn't have in the past but never really been caught. The closest was when I was dating a girl years ago. We went out in the afternoon then I made plans to go on a date with her cousin that night. I was just pulling out of my street when girl #1 pulled up. I made up some story then off I went for my date. She found out about it later. Her cousin couldn't keep a secret. She wasn't mad.

I caught my ex-wife on her first date after we separated. I was trying to keep our family together and she kept saying there was nobody else. Even our marriage counselor told me she wouldn't have time to see someone else. When people tell you to go with your gut, they are usually right. I was doing some painting at my business one night and she was cleaning and packing to move from the house she was staying at after moving out of our house to go to another location. Because of that, she told me our kids were at her parent's. I ended up going to the house she was staying at. They pulled in as I got to the end of the driveway. Two doors opened and two doors closed. I stepped out of the shadows and said "hi". That was the start of what could have been a Lifetime movie. In a nutshell, we talked, she told me it was just a friend. She was going to drop him off after she changed her clothes. They had sex after I left. We passed each other on the road 3 hours later. She admitted to kissing that night and later said they slept together. I looked through her phone while she was at the house a few days later. Saw texts between then and got his info. I also let his wife know what was going on. We all ended up divorced.