My Gf (now ex) lost her phone today at work while on lunch and just said fuck it and decided to order a new one. I waited till I was off work and followed the iCloud tracking and found the phone In a store some dude had it and gave it to me if I was able to unlock it (ignoring the fact I’m the freaking lock screen image). Anyway I get into my car and basically find messages and videos of all types of “cheatery”. I came home, she threatened to kill herself and all that jazz. I calmly grabbed some underwear, some clothes and my pc. Told her it’s over and she was on the floor begging. I MEAN BEGGING!! To make the situation a little darker, I lost my dad and grandma to Covid/diabetes complications (which she wasn’t much support because she was undergoing her own depression therapy). I’m very black and white with these type of things. I doubt I’ll ever even consider anything serious with her, but I’m just curious how other would react and what other people would do. I played it cool when I was grabbing my shit, but I’m a diner now just eating some toast, really would love to wake up from this nightmare.

Sorry for the long post