Hi all. I have posted in similar subs before but deleted all my posts because I thought I had found my forever person. Things didn't work out but it is what it is and I'm back again in search for my one and only.

In case this gets lost somewhere in my ramblings: please note that I do suffer from mental health problems as well as physical (all diagnosed by specialists and are being treated accordingly) and they tend to have an impact on my everyday life. Not massive since I started looking after myself but an impact nonetheless. I am happy to discuss this more in private.

One more thing: please don't message me to let me know that you don't like something in my post or to call me names because 'I am being unreasonable with what i want'. Just scroll along and have a look at something more up your street.

My name is Anita and I am 28 years old. I live in the UK but originally come from Eastern Europe. I moved here 15 years ago. Yes, I am happy here, this is my home as I dont remember anything else and I haven't gone back in about 11 years. Like i said i live in the UK, in a small town in county Somerset. Try to guess it!

I am a fake red hair with useless green eyes (i wear glasses). I am 6ft (yes, I am well aware I am tall, even too tall for a woman. No need to remind me every 5 mins) and I weigh 180lbs (12.5st for the British lot). I am not looking for tips on how to lose weight so no need your contribution in this department. I am an extreme introvert, always have been since I was a kid. Always found my own company much more fun and fulfilling. Even these days I rarely leave the house unless it’s for work or food. Please note I am NOT shy. I can stand up for myself at all times. No, I dont need you to ‘get me out of my shell’. Jesus lord, why not just live and let live?

I have been into the ddlg lifestyle for more than a decade but as said above, have not found the right person to enjoy it with. Although, saying that it is partially my fault as I havent had a chance to visit my little space as often as I would like to, due to life and work commitments. I am working on it! I don't have an age that I regress to. just a lump of things I really enjoy doing. Little me absolutely loves: -cartoons -colouring books -teddies -anything pink and glittery -nap time -fuzzy socks -animals (especially my cats) -pet names (not right away) -baths -cuddles and kisses -snacks -walks -playing games on my ipad and laptop (sims 4 and some other platforms)

I am a vegetarian; I do not have an issue with meat eaters. Your choice is to eat meat and mine is the opposite, animal lover (I have 5 rescued cats and fostered at least 60 in the last 10 years), green tea and coffee addict, snack enthusiast, nap lover, very much apolitical (to me they’re all the same, just wrapped differently… sorry!) and a book worm (I am slowly getting through the stacks of books I bought). I read true and fiction crime, as well as some distopian stuff (ie The Memory Police). I am also obsessed with all sorts of documentaries, whether it's about serial killers or nature. I am neurotic.

In my spare time (whatever I get of it as i work a lot) I like to go for walks, nap, watch tv, chill with my mum and cats, over eat, over think, visit my brother in London, listen to music (mostly everything but metal and country) and podcasts, go shopping with my ma and read books.

I am not into anime and the only gaming I do is sims 4 and some platform games on my ipad (not sure if this counts)

As you can tell I am well boring hahah.

What am I after -first of all, a best friend. I would like us to start as friends and let our relation develop before we move onto anything heavy. -soft CG, not into the whole sadistic stuff -a male aged 30-50. won't budge on that. No i dont care how mature you and your friends think you are. -someone loving, loyal, caring, patient, funny, understanding, hardworking, affectionate and a bit protective (not obsessively) -within UK but I am open to a LDR within Europe (you need to be willing to travel to me as much as I am willing to travel to you). Again, won't budge on this one either -child free -no type when it comes to physical features, I like a nice face. and definitely good personal hygiene -someone who doesn't ghost but also understands that I lead a busy life and sometimes I may not be able to respond right away. -nonsmoker and occasional drinker; definitely no drug users -monogamous -no animal haters -an introvert -employed (I am not after your money don't worry; just makes the travelling easy if needs be) -English speaker (how else are we going to communicate?!)

If you’re not any of the above I will not respond to your message, and no I don't make exceptions so don't waste your time.

Just like I will not respond to ‘hi, hey, hello’ or ‘hru’. I will NOT call you the D word right away. This is earned over time. Nor will I discuss any of my kinks just with anybody.

Message me with your name, age and location. And to show that you read my ramblings, end your message with ‘toodlepip’.

I use discord and WhatsApp. No I will not download Telegram or Snapchat

Please keep it clean.

Looking forward to hearing from you, wherever you are and good luck if I'm not what you're looking for!!!!!