Hello! I ask that you please read this in its entirety to ensure that we do not waste one another’s time.

I am 35 AFAB nonbinary. I am a switch but I am looking for a D/s dynamic where I am the submissive. I am polyamorous and have other partners but not in this specific way.

I want to stress that I am not looking for a solely sexual connection. The mental aspects of submission are what excites me the most. I would like to find someone that not only is willing to build this dynamic with me, but also establish a romantic connection if the spark is there.

I want someone who is nurturing and romantic, but also strict and actively wants to help me with my growth. I am in no rush and want to take time building a connection. I want a caretaker first and foremost. Someone who can comfort me with the words and their voice. Someone who can make me giggle and laugh. Someone I can cry to when I'm having a hard day. Someone who looks out for my well-being, interests and goals first. A caregiver that sees me as fragile, and small and wants to protect me. I want you to be my safe space.

I need someone who can take control in ways that will benefit my life. I desperately need guidance and control. I thrive off routine and structure. What type of things do I want you to take control of? Examples include: tell me what to eat, have a mandatory hydration quota each day, forced schedule walks, and so much more. I want to build a relationship where I feel comfortable surrendering to your will, as I know you ultimately know what is best for me. Reward or punish me as you please.

This does not mean I am not open to a sexual connection or exploring kinks. I definitely would love to explore the things I enjoy, what you enjoy and maybe we both can learn something new.

~Some~ of the kinks I enjoy include orgasm denial, nipple play, some pain play, body worship, acts of service (for you of course). There is more and I’m an pretty open as far as kinks go. Always looking to expand and explore new things!

Hard stops: scat, urine, blood play, but boundaries are the most important thing to me ultimately. I’m okay with going out of my comfort zone, but I’m not okay with crossing any boundaries- yours or mine.

I would prefer to primarily chat by text of some sort, I can do video messages as well but…we can talk about preferred communication later. I am not opposed to IRL connections but I am okay with starting and/or staying online.

So what do you say? I would be honored to be devoted to you. I would be thrilled to have you shape me in to a better human. I desire to be better and most importantly I desire to serve you. Thank you for your time! I hope to be chatting with you soon :)

Preferred age is 30 and above. All genders, races, etc. welcome