A bit about me:

I'm a 29 year old, childfree (medically sterilized) leftist that's been living in the Midwest for the last 7 years. I spend my workdays on a highway construction site and my evenings at home with my two cats. I'm mostly a homebody but can be persuaded to go out for stuff like hockey games and concerts.

I've got my shit together. I live alone, have a stable job, own a car, no debt, and am saving for a house and retirement. I'm very independent but interested in being interdependent (not codependent) with the right person.

I'm into the creepy, weird, and witchy. I enjoy board games, video games, D&D, and collecting oddities. I'm on a big fantasy reading kick right now, and have read 5 novels in the last 2 weeks. I never grew out my punk phase, so pop punk/alt music is what you'll catch me listening to the most.

I'm growing out a buzz cut so hopefully you're cool with short hair for while. Chubby but already down 30 lbs with plans to continue. No tattoos yet, but have plans for at least a few. Happy to send a picture if we start chatting.

I struggle with mental health as many of us do, but I have a care team that is helping me manage things appropriately. I've been to therapy and worked through a lot of my shit, but still expecting to give and receive grace and understanding.

Neurodivergent, BLM, ACAB, pro-Palestine, pro-choice, feminist, atheist.

A bit about you:

•Between 27 and 37 •Doesn't smoke, vape, weed, etc., •Doesn't want kids, •Preferably non religious, •Progressive politics/values, •Likes cats

Bonus points for beards, long hair, and tats.

I'm ultimately looking for something serious, long-term, and monogamous. If you are too and think we'd get along, shoot me a CHAT (my messages are broken on mobile). Look forward to hearing from you!

Side note: I am on night shift for the next few weeks, so some patience with my response times is appreciated.