I’m a married guy who’s seeking a little extra spice in life. I promise I'm not just another sex starved dad bod in sweatpants. I’m a genuine, warmhearted, and affectionate guy looking to find connection, friendship, and passion with another soul who desires to feel the same things in her life.

If you’re still reading this, thank you.

Who am I?

Just a passionate guy, lacking passion in my life and navigating the happy chaos of life in my 40s. I can whip up a mean grilled cheese and firmly believe that laughter is the best medicine (right after chocolate). When I’m not busy trimming my cat’s claws, you can find me working on my house, enjoying bourbon at a jazz club or beats at an electronic festival, planning my next trip abroad, or breaking a serious sweat running and weight training—I enjoy getting my heart racing in more ways than one.

Who am I looking for?

A partner who craves passion, pleasure, and friendship in equal measure. Someone who can set my heart racing with a single look and knows how to turn a simple moment into something electric. You're smart, witty, and enjoy life’s little pleasures—a good book, a great playlist, and the occasional guilty-pleasure TV show. You're confident in your beauty but still blush after a compliment. You like to stay active and healthy, but can still polish off a pint of Ben & Jerry’s like the best of us. Your mind is every bit as sexy as the rest of you, and you love to talk nerdy about the things that fuel your passion. You're sex positive and believe having open and honest communication with your partner paves the way for trust and deeper intimacy.

What you can count on…

• No strings, just wings. We’ll keep it light and breezy.
• Honesty is key. I’m married, you may be too, and I respect that we’re both playing in the same sandbox.
• Consent is sexy. All of our adventures will be based on mutual consent and comfort levels.
• Talk the talk. Always open communication, honest conversations about our feelings, desires, and boundaries.
• Judgment-free zone. This will be a safe space where we can express ourselves without fear of criticism or judgment.
• Laughter is mandatory! If we can make each other chuckle, we’re already halfway there!

There’s so much more to be said here, but if this resonates with you, let’s chat. Maybe get a coffee (or a cocktail, no judgment here) and then who knows? We might just find ourselves creating our own little adventure.