Hi There,

First and foremost, completely appreciate that the Hadley/Amherst/Northampton area in a bit of a stretch from Boston but we're not seeing much in the way of subs covering the area and figured some of those folks might be hanging here.

Psir of friends in our late 30's/early 40's here. He's a bi/pan cis male, she's a straight cis female. Both very switchy with hipsterish vibes.

We're going to be in the Amherst area within the next couple of weeks and would like to find another bi male for MMF play. Open to a variety of different dynamics but, due to a variety of reasons that we'll discuss with the right potentials, we're probably going to be looking primarily for situations where our guest is dominant (but thoughtful) in the bedroom. We've done this before and had a lot of fun. We've also dealt with a couple of flakes which...never shocking.

If you're reaching out, be prepared to chat with the both of us a bit over the next couple of weeks and be willing to share face pics (we have plenty). Ultimately, the personality match means more than anything and it's important that you're able to clearly articulate what you actually want in the bedroom (please don't waste our time with meaningless replies like "whatever you want") and demonstrate that you're hearing and incorporating our feedback regarding our boundaries, intos, etc. That said, a cute face and/or hung cock won't hurt your chances... Of course, there's going to be a face-to-face vibe check prior to anything actually happening.

Beyond that, please be recently tested, around our age (late 20's-mid 40's), DDF (alcohol and weed are fine), hwp, excited to give us an idea of what to expect with you in and out of the bedroom, and actually bi (can't stress enough that this isn't an opportunity for a dude just looking to get to her). We'll have a hotel room and can host.