About me: 5’8” Brown BBC
I'm looking for something long term, that will benefit both of us. This will not be a get rich (quick) scheme, so if that's among the things you're seeking, you can stop reading. An ideal match would be someone, who is shy, but kinky, and wants to explore with a more experienced man feeling safe and secure.
FAQ
Q. Will this be discreet?
A. Yes. Not willing to share/obtain any identifiable information.
Q. Is this a relationship?
A. I'll say it is a version of a regular fwb. There could be some emotions, but there will not be any emotional attachment. There will be stability, friendship and more, You're independent. I'm independent. It's like like that chart with two intersecting circles.
visible confusion
Q. Aha, What about safety?
A. I test regularly and I'm clean. Expecting the same.
Q. What about initial conversations? A. We aren't gonna rush into anything. Before building the pillars, let's build a strong foundation. Let's talk a bit here (or any other anonymous platform), discuss things, verify, talk a bit more, establish boundaries, talk even more, meet in a public place.
Q. You talk about pillars but have mentioned only one.
A. Communication would be one. Self awareness is another. There's nothing more sexier than a self aware person talking about their needs and expectations in a clear, crisp, concise, complete, alliterative and straightforward manner.
Q. I like some things you mentioned but not all.
A. Good. I would be suspicious if you were okay with everything.
Q. How do we proceed?
A. Send me a message. Please be as detailed as possible. Vibes match only when the efforts match as well. Be willing to verify. To show that you've read everything, reply with ❤️
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