Hi. I am a kind and nerdy married man and I'm looking for an attached woman who is thoughtful, kind, and well spoken with whom I can have frequent, intense, uninhibited, erudite, grammatically correct, heady, and occasionally salacious written exchanges -- probably at first via messages on here, then moving to email, and finally, if the chemistry is right, transitioning to cell-phone texting (but never giving up the email habit).

I find that putting thought and care into writing emails or other text-based communications, and knowing that someone smart is out there waiting to read my words with alacrity, makes me feel more connected to life and gives more weight to my existence. And I crave those feelings of connectedness and weight. I hope that I can give you those feelings too.

I want us to be able to write about anything under the sun, ranging from the nature of existence, to art, current events, our quotidian struggles, our hopes and dreams, and just, you know, how our days are going and what we're daydreaming about as we sit through another boring meeting at work. Nothing should be off limits, not even -- or especially not -- sex.

I don't really visualize us ever meeting (but never say never, one supposes), but I'm hopeful that a good friendship between us will develop over time. And I would not object if, eventually, we took tentative steps towards a kind of non-physical love.

Please note: I love my wife very much. I never want to hurt her and I'll never leave her. But since we talk to each other many times a day, long and thoughtful written exchanges between us somehow seem beside the point.

Some details about me:

• Over the years others I've heard others describe me as kind, intense, sensitive, persistent and energetic
• I like to read, take photographs, listen to rock and jazz, hike, camp, and backpack
• Work full time at a technology company
• Art and literature enthusiast
• Introverted, though I love to attend or host small parties
• Moderate social drinker
• Jog regularly

If this has piqued your interest, please write back as soon as possible :)