Hi, I'm getting close to my wits end, it is so unbelievably difficult to meet another actual bisexual guy.

We are a married couple, we're both bi, we have had partners come and go over the years, but I swear, I have yet to meet another actual "bi" guy. Every time, like, without fail, someone will say something like, "yeah for sure I'd like to be with both of you!" All enthusiastic, and then when things start to progress, turns out they aren't really into bi stuff, or they're on the fence, or they're wanting to explore, Mayne slowly some other time, regardless of how specific we are, and it's pretty fucking specific, It turns into "I'll gladly take a shot at your wife, but this bisexual thing, well, turns out, insert bullshit here"

Like every time. Has anyone else had this happen? Get to know someone over a period of weeks or months, have them repeatedly say the same thing, video chats, all is well, when we finally meet its like I'm offering them a cup of coffee while I go sit in the corner, Not like I'm sharing the best thing I've ever been a part of.

For clarity, I am deeply in love with my wife, and she loves me just as much, it's been 11 wonderful years, and I wouldn't change a thing, she's my soulmate, and changed my life forever instantly when I met her.

As I say, we're both bi, and to ask another to deny a part of themselves just isn't how we roll. We want each other to have everything and anything that they want. We're pretty open, we like to be straight up, and in response it's usually some underhanded workaround,

I'm really hoping that everyone else has had a much more positive experience and that it's just a me thing, Or are we really akin to some kind or endangered species? Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks yall for the time.