Hello everyone - I’m a recently-minted bisexual man (didn’t discover it until the pandemic) and I am really struggling with meeting people, men and women.

I’ve posted in Reddit groups covering the region where I live, and unfortunately it always turns up horny men. I try to explain I’m just looking for understanding friends, but it falls on deaf ears.

In fact, one guy couldn’t help himself and, despite talking for a few days non-stop, got drunk and started asking me for pictures, etc. I am absolutely not at that stage of my process yet.

I am not fully out of the closet and am really looking to meet friends without “tipping my hand,” as of yet. Any tips to make some acquaintances without totally coming out of the closet right now?