I came out to my wife this summer as bisexual and later came out to my parents and sister, but I also have two male friends that I used to be close with but am slowly cutting ties with for unrelated reasons - they don't know that I am bi and I feel no need for them to know, as we are probably gonna become more distant anyway.

So, ever since I came to Stockholm I have become quite close friend to my roommate - we often eat dinner together in the kitchen, follow eachother to the store and even occasionally eat in the restaurant. So far we have these small deals where I buy an extra pack of grilled chicken for him when I am at the store, and he sends me money the same day, or pay for my meal the next time we eat somewhere together.

Today I took the opportunity to tell him about my sexuality, and about how I found out. He was luckily very accepting, and was even fascinated by me and asked me more curious questions. He thought it was very brave of me to dare share this with him and make myself vunerable.

His first reaction: "As long as you accept that I'm straight, I will accept you are bi. And I know you are already accepting me for being straight, so no worries"

His second reaction: "But you must have been good at hiding your sexuality, because there is no way in hell I could have figured out that you are bi."

The second reaction may seem a bit biphobic to some, but to me I find it hilarious. To me people don't need to see that I am bi. It's enough that they accept me and treat me the same even after knowing it.