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I (18M) just lost a "friend" who claimed to be supportive of lgbt peeps, now im very hurt
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So i hav a "friend", sort of, he is like a friend of a friend, i think he knows me more than i know him, but we talked very nicely to each other. We discussed politics and stuff, he said he was very secular, liberal, and supported lgbt rights, gay marraige, etc. i actually reached out to him because my friend told me that he was bisexual, and i asked him about it, he told me that he was straight and asked why i thought he was bi. My friend told me he flirted with boys, and he did a few times, but he said he was straight. Now i thought i would be comfortable coming out to him, cuz i thought he was progressive, and was comfortable flirting with boys, so i messaged him on Instagram (ik, awful app, thats the only place ik him) and came out to him as "queer", didnt mention i was gay/bi or anything, just queer, just to be safe, and i found out today he blocked me. I dont have any other contact other than the insta of his, so it hurts that he blocked me. This wldnt hurt that much if he had never talked to me to that extent, but it really hurts a lot, this is the first time i lost some1 because of my queerness. I hav not come out to anybody else, except for 3 of my lovely friends, they were all kind and accepting of me. But now im just torn apart that someone wld just not talk to me because im not straight, it really hurts a lot more than it should, idk if i can even come out to my parents cuz they r certainly not supportive abt this at all, they wld probably disown me, they aldready expect me to get married to a woman and hav a bunch of grandkids, which i dont want. I think i made a stupid mistake by ciming out to him cuz i didnt know him that well, just trusted his politics, and im afraid he will out me, i did trust my 3 friends cuz i hav known them since i was born, and was extremely close to them, and i knew they wldnt have a problem at all with my queerness. I made such a terrible mistake, and now im scared, but luckily he doesnt know my parents, but he knows some of my not so close friends who all hate queer people, but i wont have to worry abt them since im moving out far away. Maybe il experience bullying by the mean time im still here.

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