After 19 years my gf found out I'm bisexual and that I do sexting with guys and I had sexdates with guys.

She was Sad , got insecure, Confused An very mad all Simultaneously Especially mad, because She thought I was cheating. What I technically did.

I tried to explain to her that it is an urge that I couldn't suppress. I'm aware that that does not makes things right. But it is the only explanation. I just also love sex with guys alot.

She does not Accept I date guys just for the lust. What I can understand.

Till today it still creates tension sometimes and discussion.

I'm glad she did not left me what crossed her mind a few time because of this.

Are there guys or girls here that experienced something similar and what would be the best way to handle this difficult situation for me and my gf?

Any tips?