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So my friend, they seem to not understand nor know what bisexuality is, maybe...? It all started when both of us were hanging out at a restaurant, we were just chilling and all of that, but all of a sudden my friend for some reason began to talk about one of our colleague's (a female) who is bisexual, they talked about how much they liked sed colleague (platonically and kinda admiration for her). They appreciate how they just have a girlfriend and a good life. And talked about how they admired, appreciate, and support bisexuals so damn much, which is good I think. But then they started to speculate that she might be cheating on her girlfriend with another colleague (a male) because she was staring at him a little too much, and was having some questionable conversations with him, mostly about if he's currently in a relationship and just really personal stuff that you do not bring up to any regular ass person, or colleague perhaps.
I tried to close the conversation, not wanting to speculate stuff like that about her, but they then said to me that they're not trying to condemn her for it (if it were true) and that "That's usually what bisexuals do! They go flirt and just obsessed with anyone."
Basically saying that bi people usually cheat and flirt with anyone that they stare at. They also told me that bi people don't stay monogamous most of the time, and if they were to be in a relationship with one of sed gender they're basically gay, or straight "for a while or such"
I stop talking to them after this, but I still message and hang out with them. I think they're just really ignorant, not knowing better. They truely supports and admires bisexuality and they even thought they might be bi themselve, but idk.
I'll maybe try to educate them or something later...
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