On march 10th, I (17m) met a guy and found out I was bisexual and I am SO happy I did. I love this community and culture! I'm not saying if you're bi you have to wear flannels and sit weirdly, nor am I saying if you do those things you are. But every time I do something that is part of the 'bi culture' like that I feel so validated! I want to find out how to make lemon bars (without zest I hate zest) even tho I've never had them before and get a biangles pin and put the 💖💜💙 in my insta bio and so many others! I've always felt different then everyone else. Apparently it's not normal to wonder what it would feel like to suck a dick. At first I thought I might be a trans lesbian, just because I didn't fit in, but I don't thing I would be comfortable with that gender switch. Then I thought I was nonbinary, but that wasn't right. Then, one day, it just snapped. All of a sudden, I was VERY attracted to Sebastian Stan and Rege-Jean Page and Lucifer in the painting 'the fallen angel' by alexander cabanel (🥵), but I was still attracted to, like, emma watson and Elizabeth olsen and kat dennings, and even though I find a lot of gay porn strange or repulsive, I am easing my way into it so I can further my own sexual identity. Even though I can't come out yet, I told some of my friends. Unfortunately we haven't been able to really talk about it, but it's great because a lot of them predicted that I was gay, and that turned into joking that I was bi. Like, one of my friends who I have a crush on told me that having a clear phone case is a bisexual thing , and she had one and happened to be bi, but we were outside, so I, unfortunately, overreacted by taking it off and chucking it into the air; that was a poor choice. or a gae friend group meme that talked about each one having a token straight guy who comes out as a chaotic bisexual (has anyone else seen this?), and now I'm so happy that I am bi, because I always wanted to be part of the lgbtqia community even though I (thought I) was straight, just because I identified with the community and always have had a firm feminist stance and try to advocate for all pro-feminist/lgbt movements without being a complete misandrist (even though men really do suck; that friend I was talking about was wearing a crop top and leggings today and was catcalled and had to conversate with the old men who did it, and I was so angry it really reinforced it). I always loved talking about sexuality and gender, and now I'm in an even better position to do it. I feel unique and yet so unalone. I have anxiety and depression and adhd, and even though none of those are better this has helped me a lot. I just needed somewhere to let my voice be heard and I would appreciate if yall would comment and talk to me about this, because I feel so high on my bisexuality right now. Thank you so much!