I'll start off by being honest, I want my first love. I didn't date in highschool, didn't feel like I deserved that sort of thing was meant for me. It took some years to actually piece myself together, and now I know that I have some sort of value and that I, like everyone else, deserve a shot at being happy.
Is that something we can achieve together? Genuine love is what I'm after. I don't want anyone to be settling for me, or just choosing me because I can give them all the attention they could ask for. I want for you to feel like the connection is mutual, and your needs are being properly met, and with that being said, I'll list mine below. Please read them before contacting me, they're extremely important...
If you're going to reach out to me, please at least send me an introduction telling me your age, what state you're in, and what about my post applies to you. I want to know that you're actually interested in me, not just some random obscure thing I said. I want someone I can relate to, that also makes me feel comfortable. I come from a Black/Hispanic background, and that is where my roots are, obviously. Ideally, even though I was never taught it, I'd enjoy being with someone who spoke Spanish. I have a genuine struggle with learning languages, and I feel like if I had someone by my side who could make up for that, I'd genuinely appreciate that, plus the language is beautiful, and it'd make for some pretty cute flirting in my opinion. I'd also ideally want someone who can give me a sense of... security. I'm rather weak when it comes to some things, and even though people don't really see me as the type, I want to be able to really confide in someone and just let myself be taken care of by them on occasion, I'd obviously do the same, because it's something I'd love to do, but in my experience with people I've met, some don't really see me as a person on occasion, and I hate that. I just exist to fill a void in their life, and I'm normally disposed of whenever someone better comes along. I think mentally, I want someone bigger than me, I'm around 5'7", maybe an inch taller, not sure. I'd love the idea of having a man who I can look up to. Not like... to an excessive degree, but just someone who can look me in the eyes and draw my face up to their own with a hand. Outside of all this, if you fit into it at least, feel free to message me. I want to give love a shot.
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