I'm looking for something soul deep with a man who respects me as his equal in every way and pushes me around in bed. The right one will be smart, honest, playful, and comfortable in his own skin. He'll find open relationships as natural as I do. He’ll have a very active libido and the strength and stamina to embrace it. And he’ll be responsible enough to have gotten the COVID-19 vaccine and to wear masks in public and condoms in private. (I’d prefer to avoid all the plagues.) Beyond that, I don’t have a lot of preconceived ideas. My tastes are broad and my mind open.

I’m nerdy, libidinous, rational, progressive, hedonistic, and pragmatic. I’m average in height and quite fat, with long chestnut-colored hair that’s going gray at the temples and sardonic eyes. Most of my regular pursuits are fairly solitary--making things, studying various obscure topics just because I’m curious, that sort of thing--but I’m open to getting out and about, when it’s possible to do that sensibly. It would probably be a good idea for me to have someone in my life who trends that way by nature. You can learn more about me through my post history, and more through my FetLife profile. (Ask for details if you want them.)

I’m helplessly, hopelessly in love with a wonderful man. I want to be helplessly, hopelessly in love with two wonderful men as different as laughter and song. It’s been my idea of the perfect love life, for as long as I’ve had one. If you’re open to that and you think we might fit, drop me a line.