Tagged it M4F, but this is really just some feedback for the straight guys that peruse this subreddit.
I feel like the guys on here need some encouragement. Almost every enjoyable connection I've had on here has come from me posting what I'm looking for, and a girl reaching out in response to my post. I feel like that always has fostered the most genuine and relaxed conversations. Probably not in small part because I'm starting from a place of genuine confidence knowing that she is somewhat interested in me. I'm not trying to come up with the perfect opening chat message to blow her away, or coming up with reasons why she should make an exception for me because who I am deviates from what she describes she is looking for. I'm guilty of trying every wrong way of getting a girl's attention on here, so I get it. But being chill and making a post will cause you to put more effort into how you are expressing yourself, which is automatically going to make you look more attractive. Also, you're not thirsting after one random person you don't know which isn't a good look either.
Anyways, I know there are a lot of guys posting and you feel like you get just as lost in the sauce, but more people will see your post than the few legit girls who post here and are flooded by DMs within seconds. Try to set yourself up for success and lay your personality or interests bare in your post, and I think you will find someone to reach out. Peace
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