Hello. I’m a seasoned kinkster looking for new friends and play partners if we get along. It’s very important to me that we enjoy each others company and have shared interests outside of kink. It’s difficult for me to be interested in kink/sex with someone I don’t really like being around.

I enjoy video games, coding, anime, model building, my cats, cooking/food, being active (off the wagon a bit on this one lol), travel, anything fun really, I’m pretty open minded and adventurous. Despite my nerdy interests, I do like normal activities and getting out.

I don’t drink much or smoke weed, if that’s boring to you we’re probably not a match. I’m not a teetotaler, but I prefer being sober and would prefer generally sober company. I don’t care if you partake though.

I have a girlfriend and she’s not going anywhere, so you should be cool with our relationship. We don’t live together or anything like that. She knows I’m looking and there’s no drama. She doesn’t have to be involved and this isn’t us unicorn hunting.

As for kink, I’m into a lot. I typically like dominant or switch partners. My drive to be dominant is low. I’m not going to be your daddy or slap you around or anything like that. If I’m dominant, I’m more the soft type. I like people who are confident and know what they want and like and aren’t afraid to express their desires. I’m open to most things, it’s hard to shock me. I’ve experienced a lot, especially as a sub. Because of this, I’m not fixated on any specific activity and I’m mainly interested in exploring mutual interests. So let’s have a discussion early on about what those things are.

If this interests you, shoot me a reddit chat or message and we can talk and exchange pics. Let’s plan to meet soon if things go well. If you don’t have free time coming up, just save my profile and message me another time.

I prefer people around my age, but no real requirements. However, being very out of shape is a deal breaker. Not only do I not find it attractive, the things I enjoy are best done when in shape lol. I’m no Adonis, but I generally take care of myself and expect the same. ✌️