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Male in my 30's- awkward at making the first physical move and wanted tips on how I can be more smooth and not awkward - what signs I am missing?
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I have no issues once in a relationship but on dates and meeting new people again, I am just an idiot.

I get a few numbers and dates here and there and I really am bad at making the first move like kiss or any sort of physical touch when things are going great. I know there is an attraction and feel it but sometimes I am like I am misreading it and I am just socially awkward.

I am scared of obviously mis-reading the situation and looking like a creep and get uncomfortable and lose confidence, which also kills that initial vibe and spark.

Situations somethings we are alone in backcorner seats the restaurant, outside at a park and it going well, we are laughing and smiling, however this moment of awkwardness, that I cant' really tell and had some situations where she didn't want to kiss or didnt' feel the same attraction and I went for it and was just a mood killer.

I also think I put too much pressure on myself and overthink the signs but any help would be greatly appreciated.

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