Mid 20s. I am sad, angry, and hopeless because I feel as if the guy I am looking for doesn't exist.

I'm looking for: my ethnicity and religion (very small pool), sexual compatibility, masc (in order for me to be sexually attracted), doesn't use any drugs or marijuana, monogamous, and then there's aligning personalities, wants, and views in life. I could give up my ethnicity, but the rest are dealbreakers.

Anyone feel the same? Do you just accept that you may never find what you want? How do you? Or do you just continue living on what feels like blind hope? Anyone here find, what felt like, their unicorn?

I don't think I could ever accept not finding this person. A partner to build a family with is what I want most in life.

If there were a city that would up your odds of finding what you were looking for, would you move? Even though you are happy where you live and would have to redirect your career that is important to you? Is it worth the 10% chance at finding what you want most in life?

Also, when there is only one person who may fit your description, how do you keep yourself from obsessing over the prospect of this person?

These thoughts are constant and debilitating me.