I (top) went on a first date last night with a cute verse bottom. We went to a nice part of town where a lot of people walk around and hang out on a Friday night.

We were walking around and talking and looking at all the shops, when we passed a bar that specialized in wine. He told me that he loved to have a glass of wine right now and I told him no problem I'll pay for it and we'll just have one glass since I was driving.

Now I have a very strong liver it takes like six glasses of wine to get me tipsy but he did say that he didn't drink often. We drank our wine together on the patio while watching people walk by who were looking at all the Christmas decorations on the stores.

We then realized it was getting late and decided to walk to my car so we can make our way home. When we get in the car he jumps on me and starts kissing me. It was getting hot and heavy so I told him my house is 5 minutes away and we can go to my apartment and kiss in privacy.

We get to my apartment and we start kissing and he asked me if we can go to the bedroom. I of course agreed and we had raw sex and I came inside him. We cuddled and talked afterwards about being each other's boyfriends.

The next afternoon I decide to take him to work since he didn't have a car and we decided to get Starbucks together before work.

While chatting and drinking coffee he then tells me that that was the first time anybody's cum inside of him. And he decided to start taking his prep pills because he was worried about HIV.

I told him that that was great and it's important to take care of your sexual health. I reminded him that I was already on prep and HIV negative (I had told him I was on prep on our very first phone call together). I also pulled up the website on my test results and showed him my most recent negative HIV test.

He then told me that there was no need for me to show him that and that he trusts me, but I told him that he's entitled to see my results first hand especially since he is concerned about me cumming inside of him.

I wasn't trying to dismiss his concerns but I was trying to show him my results to alleviate his anxiety.

He then began to tell me that he was quite drunk and although he didn't say it I feel like he was trying to insinuate that that was the reason he fucked raw.

So what's weird is that after all of this he asks me to go back to the wine place next weekend for another date which I agreed to.

The only reason I'm writing here is because this isn't the usual conversation I expect after sex. Usually they will tell me what positions they liked and didn't like and tell me how we can improve next time.

Instead he's concerned about HIV and insinuates that the only reason we had raw sex is because he was drunk.

Do you guys know if there is another conversation to be had about this issue on our next date? And how should I approach it?

Tldr: Date is nervous after raw sex and thinks he only consented to it because he was drunk