We recently found that my wife is asexual.

We're trying to learn more about it. But finding it hard to learn and find good resources.

She's happy she's found an identity that resonates with her, but is so frustrated and sad because she feels so alone and misunderstood.

What are so of the best books, websites, resources in general for ace people?

She is having a hard time learning things about herself, finding others to relate to, finding resources that describe the feelings shes feeling, something to validate her experiences.

I also want to learn as much as possible to support her!

Edit: we've been together 12 years. Our relationship was not completely void of sex, but for now it is and I am okay with that. We intend to stay committed to each other.

I am allosexual. We didn't know she was asexual until recently. But she's always felt different in this way.