Even if we lived in a hypothetical fantasy world where 100% of the porn you watch is ethical and the women are all somehow consenting and enjoying it, it is still damaging. ESPECIALLY within a committed monogamous relationship

You’re still getting off to thousands of other women per year (I estimated the # of women my ex masturbated to in the past 7 years, and it was over 25,000). You’re not even connecting to these women in real life, developing a friendship and bond. You’re purely objectifying them and massaging your limp wiener from behind a screen like a creepy voyeur. You’re damaging your brain and turning yourself into a disgusting creep who mentally undresses all women he sees. And if you’re in a relationship, you are 100% cheating. Even more so if you’re using these so called ethical porn platforms like OnlyFans and Reddit, where you can message women to talk and even pay for their exclusive content. You’ve likely had more orgasms to random women than with your girlfriend/wife in your so-called monogamous relationship.