Happy 4th of July fellow adulterers! Just curious, for all the married women here, how long did you have to search until you found a suitable AP? I know it’s a lot like dating and requires time and patience but it seems so difficult. For the record, I only look on Reddit and don’t think I’m interested in any apps or anything. But I’ve found nothing but guilt kings or men wanting sexual pen pals or men just looking for a random hook up outside their dead bedroom marriages. I’m looking for an actual relationship outside of marriage and it seems maybe that’s uncommon ? And I know I’ve said I’d call it quits many times but damn it, there is something super addicting that comes from this lifestyle.