So i am ( 23f butch - likes to top) dating a women ( 23f femme - calls herself sub switch ) for 1.5 months now. We had sex for the first time a week ago which was amazing. She got all naked. I was not really planning to get totally naked as i was uncomfortable with my breast and also it was first time having sex so wasn't comfortable on taking of my underwear as well. However, the girl wanted me to take off the bra as well from the very beginning and said it was kinda unfair that she was all naked and not me in a teasing tone. But i just told her no and we continue on with the sex. After that she really didnt brought it up.
Furthermore, I had already told her i was a virgin. Even tho i was inexperienced i myself was suprised on my ability and the confidence i hold that day. She was very suprised with my performance and even mentioned it was hard to believe that i was a virgin. On the half way into the sex. I really felt bad not giving her what she wanted and i also kinda wanted to have skin to skin touch. So she suggested we just turn off the deem light and i can take off the bra. So i did. The she wanted to touch them but i again asked her not to with hands but let just have skin to skin touch.

So the thing is i wanna know what do femme really think of boobs on a butch lesbians. What do u wanna do to them? Regardless of how ur partner want to be touched. What is ur true desire? Do u wanna hold them or just squize them, suck and bite them like we want to do to urs?

I wont say i totally dislike my boobs. But if there was an easy way to get it removed 80% chance i would do it. So i dont really like to have them. But again i feel like if i dont have them it will make me less sexually desireable by the femmes and also having them and seeing in the mirror do make me think it does look good on my body sometime. The thoughts keep changing so i just try not to think of it. Where i really want my femme to touch is my chest, the bare chest in the middle of the boobs but not the boobs really.

Also do u really find butch lesbians with top surgery as sexually desirable as the one with out? Or is there a difference?

In short,

Femmes what do u think of boobs on butch women and how do u like to touch them regardless of how ur partner want to be touched?