For the past year, many men exactly 20 years younger than me have approached me in one way or another. (And not just male lurkers at this sub.)

(That makes it a larger age gap than the one between me and the lady who brought me into the world.)

You’ll hear me talking about God here, and my convo with Him (for me He’s a Him, my choice) is like, WT Holy F here?? What part of “GenX age” is not transmitting through the celestial requisition form??

A few weeks ago I was in a Zoom training and an 85-year old woman brought up that her husband was 65; they’d been married about 40 years. Does that even work???

So I ask you women here, it worth even entertaining the idea of a relationship with someone 20 years younger? Because that’s what keeps getting delivered. Any personal experience?

I had three dates last summer with a guy 20 years younger than me. He let it drop off. That’s fine; he couldn’t even kiss me. My last relationship of 15 years was with a guy five years younger but he acted older and more Boomerish than guys 10 years older than me.

I was looking forward to semi retirement.