We have been together for about 10 years now. I’ve always been a fit guy. She is a bigger girl herself so pretty much since we started dating she tried putting weight on me. I had a hard blue collar manual labor job so it really only helped me with muscle. Until Covid hit I couldn’t work or go to the gym. I had to get an office job. I put on a lot of weight during that time frame. Lost it after a while. But I found I wasn’t as happy skinny as I was being bigger. Also I’m from the Midwest it’s cold 8 months out of the year the insulation is nice lol.

I started to stop going to the gym again, plus my wife is a great cook so I really enjoyed it. Eventually we had a conversation about my weight she sheepishly made comments about me being bigger and that she liked it. I had a co worker who was trying to start her own food business for a side project to help her out I decided to pay for a few meals. She was amazing. I ordered quite a bit from her. I went up a couple pant sizes pretty quickly from her I went from a 36 to a 42 real fast. I thought my wife would be jealous or mad but the opposite was true. In fact she encouraged I eat more from my co worker. She said she enjoyed the idea of other women finding me attractive fat as well and feeding me.

She came around to suggesting I try and find more of that. I’m not really sure how to feel about it considering I always thought girls didn’t like bigger guys. Dad bods are kind of in but I’m still on the fence about it.