my family sucks. I have 3 older brothers and 6 sisters. We grew up in separate homes because my mom was an addict. We don't know each other well but we are all adults now. For 9 years since my mother passed away we've been continually making plans to meet and hang out which will not happen. I always invite them over and buy everything and they never show up. Somehow I'm playing victim when I tell them how it makes me feel. I have gone to their houses and parties and given them and their kids gifts and money and I've never asked for anything in return just for them to talk to me or see me. Now I've low mental health and physical health and hardly leave my house mostly because of my crappy childhood. I stopped showing up and talking to them as much as I used to because everytime I've invited them over or to do something together they have some kind of excuse. I know they have kids and husbands but that's not an excuse to come see or spend time with your family bring your husband and your kids instead of saying I don't have a babysitter I never once said no kids or partners allowed kids and husbands wives and gfs or bfs are apart of the family to I just want to see my damn family. Now at this point I want nothing to do with them. They are so lame. Oh yeah and I'm in a freaking wheelchair have been for 2 months now.