It was a fair thing to ask but it made me feel awful to think anybody could even perceive me to do such a thing like what she did to me. I know it wasn’t targeted because I just generally mentioned my first relationship had some domestic violence moments to the DR. but it made my heart stop for a moment. I’ll always hate being perceived, in general but especially as a man in todays world. I’m not trans but I’ve always felt like I’ve identified with women’s issues more, a lot of my medical issues are usually observed more in women than men. I’ve been through SA as an infant, pieced it together as an adult. I’ve been in a physically/mentally abusive relationship with an ACTUALLY DIAGNOSED narcissist with BPD. I try my best to be a good person, it’s awful being perceived as a monster, even falsely.

Apologies for getting off topic