Hi!

My birthday is just a few weeks away, and as I reflect on the year, I’ve realized how much I’d love to end it with some new experiences and meaningful connections. I posted something similar about a month ago, and it led to some great conversations and even a few meet-ups. While nothing long-term came of it, it gave me hope that there’s someone out there who understands where I’m coming from and could help me take some steps forward. So, as a little birthday present to myself, I’m giving it another shot!

I’m a 33-year-old white Mediterranean guy, 5'6" (168 cm), 67kg, with green eyes, brown hair, and a stubble beard. I like to stay active, and I’d say I’m in decent shape.

What I’m Into

I’ve got a wide range of interests, but snowboarding is my true passion. I hit the Alps as often as I can during the winter. Outside of that, I love go-karting, hitting the gym regularly, and generally enjoying the outdoors.

I’m also into more low-key stuff like board games, watching F1, watching anime, reading manga (currently working through One Piece), gaming (sporadically), and starting new TV series that I may never finish. I love a chilled movie night or diving into new music too (metal, rock, EDM are my go-to genres), and I’m always down to grab drinks or go clubbing.

Backstory

I've had a few close encounters in my early and mid-20s, but anxiety always held me back. Since moving to the UK, I've been on various dates, but nothing progressed emotionally or physically. As I've gotten older, my inexperience has become a mental barrier, making me feel self-conscious and sometimes awkward around women.

Posting here is me taking a step forward and trying to be more open. With my birthday just around the corner and the new year approaching, I’d love to embrace new experiences and look forward to what’s to come.

What I’m Looking For

I'm looking for someone open-minded and fun to be around to explore this part of life I haven't experienced much. I'm very open to just foreplay/cuddles, kissing, etc., without any pressure to go further right away. I'd really like to discover new sensations and build comfort with intimacy in a genuine, relaxed way.

Communication is important to me, and I’d love to meet someone who feels the same. Ideally, you’d be based in or near London so we could meet up more easily. I’m not in a rush, I’d love to start by chatting a bit and getting to know each other first.

If you’re up for grabbing coffee, brunch, or just want to chat and see if we click, feel free to drop me a message!

Thanks for reading and hope we connect! 😊