Hi there,

If you're reading this, the title must interest you. So thank you. I'll introduce myself first and then discuss what I am looking for.

About me:

I am 41, used to work in Private Contracted Security, and now work in IT as an AM/CSM. I am originally from Germany but grew up in the Netherlands, and I had a French grandfather and a Polish grandmother. I have a Dog and several Cats. I do not have Kids (more on that later). I speak Dutch, German, and English.

I used to travel a lot for work.

I have several creative Hobbies, like Photography, Writing, Painting and Drawing, Boardgames and Miniature Wargames. I also enjoy Woodworking, Cooking, Gardening, Trekking, and Hiking.

Vacationing for me nowadays is conventions and city trips, going to museums and other cultural things. I also like to go hiking and camping in the wilderness. I read a lot; I am creative; I used to game when I was younger, but nowadays, it is at most a few hours per month.

Why a younger woman?

I am looking for a younger Woman for several reasons. One is that I am attracted to them (not children or anyone under 21; sorry for all the 18-year-olds), but I also like the dynamic. I do not like DDLG at all; if you're into that, go somewhere else. You can have Daddy issues but do not call me daddy or pretend to be a child. Thank you. Let's talk about what I want in a relationship with that out of the way.

I am looking quite frankly for the future mother of my children; I want a traditional dynamic where you stay home and get pregnant. At least 2-3 times with healthy children. (More will depend on your health, and capacity to handle the children properly, I do not need a soccer team, after all, most Boardgames only work with 6 players at most ;) ). A younger woman will have more energy and be better capable of going through pregnancy a few times.

What should you bring and want?

You should want to be an STAHM and be willing to explore a free use and BDSM dynamic. I am on the dominant side, in and out of the bedroom; you should be willing and able to submit decisions. I am not looking for you to not have your own opinion; you should have that, be able to articulate that, and you should be educated. However, I will have the final say in all matters. To be clear, you should be intelligent, but basically, you should want to be a) the mother of my children, b) my partner who supports me and my goals and our children, and c) last but not least, you should be my bitch ;).

I have a very high libido, which has not changed in the last 30ish years, so you should be willing to pleasure me and get pleasure out of my happiness. I also like you to have pleasure, so you should truly enjoy your role as a free-use housewife.

You should also be at least willing to try to have an interest in a few of my hobbies; you should also be willing to handle the children during the day, as I want to avoid offloading them into the system.

How and where will we Live?

On the Countryside. I work from home and am currently in the office about one day a month, so I will be home but working. You should be willing to take on most household chores during the day; as I said, I like to cook, so this will be my area or a shared one if you enjoy it too. I like to do the handy stuff, but if you want to help, I am also happy to teach you that.

I am looking for a house with some land in the countryside to renovate. I want to be off-grid as much as possible, so Solar, our own Watersource, a hydroponic greenhouse, some gardening, chickens, and maybe even some goats, sheep, or deer will also be there. So you should be willing to homestead as well. As this is the countryside, you should have or be willing to obtain a driver's license.

Politics and Religion

I am liberal, bordering libertarian. I am not monotheistic nor religious in any kind in my daily life. Some people would call my beliefs Pagan, and they mainly are Nordics and a bit of Shintoism. You should not be Muslim or Christian.

Looks and such

I do not care about race, nor should You. I am mainly attracted to European and Asian Women; however, if you are anything else, I am not saying no per se; it is just what I am physically attracted to the most.

I am a bit over 6 feet; I am okay weight-wise, but I need to get a bit fitter after I had a medical issue last year after a dog attack, which led to some scars on my left hand.

You are likely not if you think you are overweight; I like some curves. However, I am not attracted to BBW/Obese people. (Just not what I am attracted to, not any kind of evaluation on my end)

What would our relationship look like?

Besides the above-described stuff, I value communication, being transparent, being direct, and not assuming I understand clues. I do not, I am a guy; we never do ;) Also, as I am looking for a BDSM Dynamic, it should be clear that communication is vital and mutual respect is a given. Especially if Free-Use, CNC, and such things are concerned

I will bring the cash, you will get an allowance for yourself, we will take care of bills, etc. together; if you want to get married, it will be with an ironclad prenup. I will take care of you, our children, and our animals financially and emotionally. In return, you will take care of the children and the household, which means cleaning, cooking, etc. (Again, nothing will ever be a solo effort, but the roles will generally be this), and Free-use to me (except in medical circumstances). I will have the last say in any decisions after a discussion and consideration of your opinion.

If this intrigues you, chat with me; use either the German or the Dutch translation of broodmare in the title or the first sentence. I am happy to exchange safe-for-work pictures and verify identity later on. I also would advise you to have a screenshot of your BDSM Test ready.

We will chat a bit here on Reddit, and if everything checks out, we can move on; I prefer to move to some voice and video calls later and, at some point, meet up in a city somewhere in Europe, depending on the location and how it goes.