I don't mean forced arranged marriages obviously. But the whole dating process sucks. The pain of trying to find someone to actually go out with, go on multiples dates just to see if you want to be "official", date for many more months until maybe you get engaged, etc.

I wish I could just a partner (a woman, in my case), that shares my values, attitudes, and goals; someone that I'm reasonably attracted to (and vice versa); and someone I just get along with and we agree to just be together.

No literal wine and dance for months to see if we "like" each other.

We share the same vision, we are attracted to each other mostly, and we get along, good enough.

Does that make any sense?